The Secret of Deliberate Creation
An article shows us that we need to think about our beliefs to better ourselves and that we need to look inward to find our true state of being:
What is the secret of deliberate creation?
It’s having the awareness, that we are always creating our lives. It’s happening whether we are paying attention to it or not. Most people are creating events, situations, and experiences unconsciously. They are living on auto-pilot.
This article will provide you with tips to help you be a deliberate creator.
Life is a perfect reflection of your beliefs and actions.
The Secret of Deliberate Creation
Begin by taking ownership of your life exactly as it is. It is your creation. Love it, even if you don’t like it. On a deep level everything is here because you agreed to have it in your life. Your parents, spouse, co-workers, abusers, supporters, etc… Nothing has happened to you by chance.
Next we need to take a look at our beliefs. Understanding beliefs is key to working with the secret of deliberate creation. They are often left out of the law of attraction teachings. Here is how it works. If you desire something, perhaps the perfect partner, but your beliefs about relationships are “they never work”, “all men are pigs”, “women can’t be trusted”, etc… then that is what you will experience.
Your belief systems are the key to deliberate creation. They are the blueprint. Your emotions and attitudes follow and reinforce the third element , which is your behaviors. So, if your belief system about relationships is “all men are pigs”, even if you met your dream guy, you would still only see another pig.
“If a pickpocket meets a saint he sees only his pockets” – unknown
Beliefs are so ingrained into our lives that we consider them to be truth. In reality they are just a perspective you are living through. We each have the power to change our belief systems, and therefore, change our lives.
The Secret of deliberate creation is an awareness of your belief systems and then consciously choosing them.
So take a look at your life.
Review your repeated experiences, and they will reveal to you your belief systems.
– Are you always broke, or just getting by financially?
– Do you always tend to date the same type of person?
– Do you work a job you don’t like, but stay for the money?
– Are you happy where you live?
– Do you do the things you enjoy?
Each of these beliefs has served you at some point in your life. Now it is time to decide if you would like to continue with them or make a change.
Your experiences will reveal your beliefs.
Putting those beliefs to work for you is using the secret of deliberate creation.
This is going to be an individual process, but I’ll give you an example.
Look at the experience you are having, let’s continue with relationships and say you can’t find the right partner.
Write down your answers to the following questions.
What beliefs do you currently have about relationships? How do you view the opposite sex (or same sex)? What types of people are you attracted too? What qualities do you find attractive? What are your expectations from your partner? What do you bring to a relationship? How do you feel about yourself? What do you love about yourself? What do you dislike about yourself? Why do you want to be in a relationship? What turns you on in a sexual partner? How do you feel about the things that turn you on? Is it easy to find your perfect partner?
This process is to gather information from yourself. The answers will start to show you beliefs you have that are creating your experience of relationships. Remember understanding your beliefs will allow you to change your life and put the secret of deliberate creation to work for you.
After answering the questions you should have a clearer understanding of your point of view. This point of view has been your creation point.
The Secret of Deliberate Creation – Now we start to change.
You can write down or speak out loud your answer to the following exercise.
Conjure up in your imagination a personality that has the perfect relationships. This person has no concept of a bad relationship, they have always attracted loving people into their life. This person doesn’t know what it’s like to wish for the perfect person etc… If you complained to them about your relationship problems, they couldn’t “relate” to you.
Now, what beliefs about relationships does this person have? Go back through the above questions and answer them as the other personality.
When you have the list of new beliefs you are at a new point in life. Things can now start fresh if you will let them.
Start to live like the person you’ve imagined, would live. How would they act, what would they do, how would they speak? What perspective would they have about relationships, dating, and meeting new people? Live into the new you. It can happen all at once or a little at a time, but if you allow it too, it will happen.
Here is another tip.
Don’t look to the reality outside yourself to see the change. You must know you’ve changed first. It starts from the inside out. The reality will shift, sometimes right away, but usually, not until you have fully decided to accept the new you. You are given opportunities to revert back or stay course. This will happen by being given old circumstances to express the new you.
Key point, circumstances don’t matter, only your state of being matters. Choose your state of being and live it. Then your state of being will materialize the life you desire.
Now you know the secret of deliberate creation, put this process to work in your life and start creating the life you desire.